Peace
It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work.
It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.
- Unknown, but greatly appreciated.
Image: Golden Ginko by Dominique Allmon. Dominique Allmon©2024
Insults are the arguments employed by those who are in the wrong. - Jean-Jacques Rousseau
The lack of civility in public space nowadays is appalling. There is so much abuse on social media that it is almost impossible to make a statement or discuss anything intelligently anymore without being insulted by those who disagree with you. Once the barrier of civility is broken, there is no end to the flow of epithets derived from human anatomy and physiology or from the animal kingdom.
An intelligent, knowledgeable, eloquent person is in full command of the language he or she uses and does not have to resort to insults, cursing, vulgarities, and such. Intelligent arguments are based in grammar, logic, and rhetoric and are backed by knowledge, imagination, and experience. Unfortunately, modern students are not taught the art of rhetoric anymore. The arguments are won in verbal fistfights whereas everybody must agree or else. Any divergent thought is bullied out in a totalitarian manner. But, but, but! One does not really win an argument because of a large repertory of insults.
Unfortunately, everywhere you look, on social media, in the press, on television, people are unable to truly discuss or debate anything anymore in a civilized manner. The intellectual immaturity is appalling. People get offended because you do not think like them. As soon as you present a different view people start calling you names no matter who you are.
What happened to "we agree to disagree?" What happened to civility? What happened to tolerance and respect? As with anything, one would normally assume that both sides have the right to their own opinion. This, unfortunately, seems not to be the case any longer.
Name calling, insults and intimidation do not work at all with me, but an intelligent argument based in logic might. If you managed to convince me that my way of thinking was wrong, I would gladly reconsider my viewpoint and accept your argument, grateful that I have learned something new.
I do not subscribe to politically correct views or the view of a majority unless, of course, the majority is well informed and has a valid opinion I can logically agree with. But rest assured, I would never accept a view simply because it is the preferred view of a majority. I would rather have a sip of hemlock!
Dominique Allmon
Dominique Allmon©2024
Nothing you love is lost. Not really. Things, people - they always go away, sooner or later. You can’t hold them, any more than you can hold moonlight. But if they’ve touched you, if they’re inside you, then they’re still yours. The only things you ever really have are the ones you hold inside your heart. - Bruce Coville in "Jeremy Thatcher, Dragon Hatcher"
Happy heavenly birthday to my late husband James!
Image: My husband with our puppy at the Bottomless Lakes, Roswell, NM, long before the cancer diagnosis. Both gone now but mine, forever.